Do you envy women who attract good men with seemingly no effort? Do you ever feel that these women have something you lack? Do you wonder how girls who don't look or act differently from you can possess such power? Many women ask these questions about their man-wealthy counterparts.
Some women draw men without even thinking about it, but if you're not one of these lucky girls who can make men want you simply by existing, there are other things you can do to make yourself a guy magnet.
Here's a familiar scenario: You have your eye on a guy, and you're not sure how to go about getting his attention.
You have lots of options, but the most reliable one is nature.
Men and women have a natural tendency to gravitate toward each other, especially when there are sparks between you.
And most often that means being physically attracted to one another.
This does NOT mean you have to be a complete "10" to attract a great guy.
Men know the difference between models and real women, and so should you.
If you take care of yourself and know that you're attractive, he'll notice it as well.
Start by addressing the issues that you feel will have the biggest impact on your appearance and your feelings about yourself.
Concentrate on what you have instead of obsessing over what you wish you had.
You may wish you had larger breasts or a new nose, but instead of fixating on those qualities, try to focus on what you like about yourself.
Flaunt long legs with a short skirt, or learn how to use makeup to emphasize big, beautiful eyes.
Men will be quicker to take note of these qualities if you take steps to make them more conspicuous.
Look at yourself objectively to decide how to best attract a man.
If you need a fresh perspective on things, try looking at yourself in a full-length mirror.
What do you want him to notice first? Your shapely arms, your delicate ankles? Try on some of your favorite outfits to see how well they showcase these features.
Most importantly, make sure they are outfits that you like.
Feeling attractive is as vital to attracting a man as looking attractive.
If you aren't comfortable or you just don't like the color of your new dress, it will show.
Beware of one pitfall when showing off your goods: don't go too far! If he's already seen everything you have to offer, he'll have little reason to ask you out on a date.
Men are very visual and tactile in the first stages of a relationship, so you want to keep his mind on those assets he hasn't yet seen.
Being a little conservative with your wardrobe won't hinder your ability to get a man.
In fact, it will only make him want to see more.