It is not a secret that the financial issues become the main reason for the couples to take divorce.
Otherwise such a couple might be good for each other to live together forever.
If it happens only due to the mismanagement of the home finances, it can be termed as blunder of life.
If some care were taken in advance, such blunders can be avoided.
Let us see where we make mistake so far as the money matters involving a couple is concerned.
Communication Gap Once got married and started indulging in their jobs, a couple hardly care about communicating about their problems to each other.
There can be no bigger mistake than this one.
Let us put it in this way: telling about everything happened in a day, in nutshell, is the key for a successful married life; and failing which would be a key reason for separation.
Blame Game It is not uncommon for a family or a couple to be caught in a financial mess.
If that is considered as a common difficulty, then it can have a workable solution.
Instead if any one, a man or a woman, starts pointing fingers to another for being a cause of the difficulty would be carrying a dangerous luggage.
Blame game would not help anyone.
The solution would be to go for short vacation, sit on a beautiful place and then think over the real issue and try to work out a possible solution to come out of the financial mess.
Discuss and be happy: that is the golden rule of happiness.
Lack of Emergency Budget A prudent house wife or an able administrator man must keep a window open to use it in case of any fire breaks out.
This window is called the emergency budget.
No one can predict about the unforeseen circumstances.
So to have an arrangement to meet sudden expenses would be a good idea.
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