Getting dumped by your lover can be one of the most painful and emotionally draining experiences in life.
There are certain things that can trigger that initial attraction in women and there are certain things that will kill it.
The problem is that most guys are not aware or don't ever care to be aware of these things.
As a result of this negligence, they may run into some rough patches in life.
However, such things are very avoidable, and the key is to just be aware of the results that manifest from your actions.
Let me share with you some tips so that you can enjoy a smooth and fulfilling relationship.
Placing a woman above you Being so attracted to a particular individual that you end up placing her above yourself is probably the worst mistake you can make in a relationship.
It is just a heartbreak waiting to happen.
Good looking women are used to getting attention from men throughout their lives, and she is used to having guys around who would be willing to do anything for her.
It is something that she is probably bored of and definitely doesn't need anymore of.
If you make the same mistake as those other guys, her attraction for you will die down in a heartbeat.
The important thing for you to be aware of is to think about yourself before you think about the girl.
Being clingy Neediness is a quality that women despise in men.
It is a sign of low self esteem.
You should avoid coming across as needy to her at all costs.
The first thing that pops into a woman's mind when she sees a needy guy is insecurity.
It's something that's just not going to work.
No relationship can be built around insecurity.
When my very first girlfriend used to tell me that she was going to go out without me to meet her friends, and was really happy about it, it made me feel kind of bad.
The reason for me feeling bad was because I was needy.
And that is the very reason that she ended up leaving me.
I can guarantee you from all my experience that this is something you must learn to overcome.
Love her but be confident alone When people get into a relationship where either one or both parties absolutely depends on the other, it is a very dangerous situation.
It's basically like a giant bubble waiting to burst.
When it bursts, everything will seem lost.
The ideal situation to be in a relationship is where you love your partner and you recognize that she loves you, but you are still strong and confident when you are alone.
That way, you are avoiding being overly dependent and needy, and you are also bubbling with self esteem.