Showing random acts of affection liberally will put a smile on your loved one's face. They will feel good, and that will cause you to feel good. Showing random acts of affection is all part of being thoughtful.
Show affection towards your partner for no reason and at completely spontaneous times. Why should showing your love by cuddling and kissing be limited to certain situations?
When you are showing random acts of affection to your partner they feel inspired to do the same thing!
Over time, your relationship needs an injection of new blood and showing random acts of affection guarantees your love life is active and well. You feel less like roommates and more like lovers.
* Hug your partner from behind next time they are brushing their teeth.
* Play slow music and treat your lover to a romantic dance.
* While your partner is busy around the home, walk by and stop to kiss him or her on the forehead.
* Offer a long, warm kiss to your love as soon as you walk in the door and just as you leave each day.
* Sneak up on your love and surprise them with a nuzzle in their hair or neck.
* Run your fingers through your love's hair as you wait in a line.
* Rub up against your love's leg while sitting beside him or her.
* Place your hand on the small of her back as often as possible.
* Caress your partner's face or arms during a heart-to-heart.
* Catch your love's eye while they are reading the newspaper or otherwise engaged in concentration. When they look up and make eye
contact back, smile and tell them how much you love them.
* When your lover dresses to go out, be sure to pay attention and direct your gaze to admire him or her with your eyes. Tell them how
fabulous they look and seal it with a kiss.
THE ROMANCE AND SCIENCE OF KISSING
What is that feeling people get from a good kiss that's so hard to explain? How does kissing come into play when being romantic?
Women often compare a good kiss to "melting butter" and like being "hit by a wave," according to a recent survey. Men often describe it as similar to "vibrations at a concert" or a "three pointer at the buzzer to win the NCAA basketball tournament,"according to the same survey.
Experts have proven there is a lot of physiology behind the warm and fuzzy feelings that come from a good kiss.
Feelings of romantic love, and kissing, stimulate the same type of brain activity as many sports, such as: parachuting, bungee jumping and distance running, for example.
These same types of activities cause the brain to experience a surge in norepinephrine, dopamine and phenylethylamine (or just PEA to some.) These neurotransmitters attach to pleasure receptors in the brain and create feelings of euphoria, giddiness, elation and such.
So, next time you feel romantic and want to show your love to someone special, go for that wonderful kiss -- it will definitely leave a lasting impression!
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