- Toddlers are very capable of learning basic skills. Start by teaching healthy habits such as washing their hands before they eat, and not playing with toys or pets at the dinner table. Have them sit up straight and place their napkin in their lap. Children respond best to praise, so when they remember to do these things on their own, praise them. Try to avoid negativity when they forget. Just politely remind them, and watch them aim to please.
- As children get older, usually around age 5 or so, they're ready to take on more responsibility at the dinner table. You can begin to teach them manners such as asking politely for food to be passed, or asking to be excused from the table. Start having them clear their own plates from the table when they're finished eating. You can even begin teaching them how to set the table before the meal.
- Each family has their own dinner rules. The main goal is to teach children to be polite and respectful when eating with others outside the home or in a restaurant. Unless you're going to be eating a formal meal somewhere that will include children, teaching them the basics of politeness and manners should be sufficient.
- As teens mature and start thinking about careers and family, they sometimes have to be reminded of the importance of good etiquette and manners. They need to know that a lack thereof could result in lost opportunities in their adult lives. It's a good idea to practice good manners at home regularly. Activities such as helping guests with their coats or seats and polite conversation help instill proper etiquette for their future.