Acting too keen around girls will not score you any girls. You will end up pushing them away with your constant need for them to talk to you. Play the game of dating, it sucks at times but it does work. You need to be able to keep a girl at arm's length and remain in control. If she texts you then don't text back for a couple of hours. If she calls you and leave a message do not ring back straight away.

After your first date don't text her to tell her what a nice night you had, merely ignore her for a couple of days see what happens and then contact her. If she is worth it she will contact you anyway. In fact try and leave the ball in her court as much as possible. That way you don't have to worry about anything quite as much. Let her call and text you first and if you don't give anything back for a while she will do all the worrying.

Is it me? Why isn't he texting back? Oh god I shouldn't have sent that what is he thinking now? They are all questions blokes will ask themselves at some point when playing the same. So don't let them play that game with you, make sure they ask themselves those questions. Believe me if they are asking those questions you are firmly in control of the situation and you will be able to just relax and work on you date.

Your appearance is what you need to get under control now. Have a haircut and go and get a new shirt. If you can go and get a new shirt it will breathe confidence into you. And confident men are attractive to women. Especially needy ones. So don't be keen and if you arrange to meet up on a night out with a group of friends and she is there wait your time before talking to her.

Now there is a difference to playing the game and just being outright rude. If you are outright rude then they will lose interest and think you are a pig. Act as if she doesn't exist but then when you do see her you be confident and open with her. Make a big deal out of everything she says and you will have her eating out of the palm of your hand.