Jealousy is a very powerful emotion. It can also be a very useful tool if you want to win back your ex boyfriend. As is true whenever you try to manipulate another person's emotions, you need to proceed very carefully or the feelings that get hurt may be your own. There are three ways that are guaranteed to get his attention and make him regret his decision to let you go.

Spend Time Getting To Know Someone Else Yourself

Spending your time and energy taking care of someone else is sure to make your ex boyfriend stand up and take notice especially if the person you are putting your efforts into is yourself. Splurge a bit on yourself and take the time to make sure you look your best at all times. The next time you run into your ex he will wonder for whom you are dressing up for. This may well drive him right back into your arms.

Adopt a Positive Attitude

A positive attitude will not only help you to surround yourself with happy, positive people but it will make you happier as well. Seeing the silver lining in every rain cloud will keep a smile on your face. Nothing will make your ex wonder what you are up to more than you walking around grinning from ear to ear. If he is spending time wondering what you are up to, he may begin to wonder why he broke up with you in the first place.

Begin Dating Again

If you really want your ex boyfriend to get jealous, let the grapevine inform him that you are seeing someone new. Take your new beau to the places you know your ex's friends are likely to be and let the rumors fly. One word of caution, do not lead this new guy on. Make it perfectly clear to him that you are only interested in a casual relationship. There is no need to break his heart in an attempt to win back someone else.