Since the time of the Stone Age, it is in our genetic makeup to desire for a good relationship once our basic needs such as food and water are met.
Of course, the process is easier said than done at this modern time of age.
There are certain things that humans can do to speed up the process of looking for intimacy and a commonality with another person and in this article, 3 main suggestions will be mentioned.
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Find a meaningful purpose for your life and make it a first priority It has been researched by Astrologer/Author Robert Lee Camp that many relationship problems are settled just by being clear on the life's purpose and not to allow any obstacles to come between the couple and the purpose.
He also noticed that a person with a clear purpose in life tend to have a much greater success in their choice of mates.
The Law of Attraction seems to come into play here.
For example if a woman's purpose in life is to raise children and be a good mother, it will be at a higher priority than to be a good wife or lover.
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Be specific when envisioning a person to be with It may sound strange, but a person will attract another person who exactly meets the specifications that is in his/her mind.
It is what in our thoughts that create our world and we are responsible for what we have created.
If a person is single and looking for a partner, list down the qualities of the kind of partner he/she envision.
Once he/she has found a partner, compare the traits of the partner with what was written down.
Most of the time, it will be exactly what he/she had asked for.
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Learn to communicate with your partner Communication is essential in any relationship to be successful, and especially for an intimate relationship, communication through feelings is important.
It reveals the basic level of needs and fears in a couple and it links the gap between unclear and clear communications.
The world of love, care and intimacy can only be experienced by two people if they truly open up and reveal their fears and weaknesses to each other.
However, if a partner chooses not to accept just who you are, do not blame him/her.
It may mean that the two of you are not right for each other and there is always someone else who is right for you.
Do not give up hope of marital or intimate bliss.
There are books by Dr.
John Gray that can give advice, support groups, therapies and activities such as Yoga that may help re-establish the connection.
Just be yourself, give the universe a chance and the partner of your dreams may appear.