Why does this happen? It's because most women would rather ignore the red flags when something is starting to go wrong with their marriage.
It's not that they never saw it coming, they just refuse to see it even if it stares at them straight in the face.
So for the wives who are experiencing troubles in their marriage, here are the common warning signs that tell you when your husband is thinking seriously about divorce.
- When he puts it into words.
When your husband starts mentioning about "not being happy anymore" or he "feels that something is missing", never ever ignore these words.
Yes, it may lessen the pain of you just let it slip away in your memory but this may be his way of telling you that something is seriously wrong in your marriage and its not working out anymore. - He starts managing his own affairs.
If your husband is starting to leave you out of his plans, then something is really, really wrong.
He may start planning weekends out without you and may even make new financial accounts on his own.
He may not tell you at first, but eventually he may suggest that you do the same. - He increases the distance between you.
When he starts to spend less time at home and more time elsewhere, then that may imply that he no longer wants to be together.
He becomes more emotionally distant - less cuddling, no more intimate talks and pays less attention to your needs.
Although couples married for quite a long time may not cuddle as often as before, those who are still committed to their marriage still have intimate moments even once in a while.
It may not be in the form of words, it may be through actions.
So if you sense that something is wrong, then try to talk it out.
Sit with him and be brutally honest.
Listen to what he is saying.
Facing these truths head on and as early as possible will help you save your marriage from divorce before it's too late.