If you want to understand how to get girls in bed really well, you've got to know a little bit about psychology.
This article is going to explain an important psychological concept that's going to really help you pick up girls and get them into the bedroom, foaming at the mouth like the wild animals they really are.
Each person has a personality as well as a number of sub-personalities.
For the sake of simplicity, we can think of these sub-personalities as situational personalities.
In this situation, your personality changes to this; in another situation, it is this.
A combination of influences go into shaping these personalities.
One major influence is "social proof.
" These are thing that people say or believe about us that shape how we feel about ourselves.
A lot of other things go into shaping sub-personalities too, like how you really think about yourself or things that you've experienced.
We all have our own sexualized self-image.
This is one of your sub-personalities, and it is all about how you see yourself sexually.
For guys it may not be as apparent, but women keep their sexual side hidden.
This means there are lots of barriers for you if you're trying to get a woman into bed.
In order to do it effectively, you need to understand her sexual self-image.
To illustrate this so it's easy to understand, imagine yourself in two different situations.
One situation is the strip club.
You're hollering and shouting, waving bills in the air, ready at any second to stroke a girl's thigh and completely comfortable with all of it.
The other situation is being at your parents' house for Thanksgiving dinner.
There, you're pretty sexually uncomfortable.
If a steamy sex scene comes on TV, you're headed into the kitchen for a second helping of stuffing.
Now, consider that this sexual side is even harder to access with women.
A woman's sexual self-image is buried under lock and key, and to get her into bed, you have to break it.
We have to use techniques that will reveal information about her sexual self-image.
If you don't know how she sees herself sexually, it's going to be tough to escalate things comfortably to a sexual level.
If you push her out of her comfort zone, she's going to pull away and you're going home alone.
There are lots of ways to unleash a woman's sexual side.
The important thing is to understand her sexual sub-personality.
This is an essential step if you want to know how to get girls in bed like a real pick-up pro.