Close Relatives

• For close relatives of the couple--parents, siblings, grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles--an appropriate amount is at least $100.
  
  

Distant Relatives

• More distant relatives of the bride and groom, particularly if they are not in close contact with the family, should give a minimum of $50.
  
  

Relatives 18 and Younger

• Young relatives aren't expected to provide a gift, as their parents present a gift as being from the whole family. But if the parents want to give a gift "from your little cousin," they can tuck an extra $10 in the card and have the child sign it.
  
  

Bridal Party

• Those who have been chosen to be in bridal party represent a special relationship they have with a couple. Groomsmen and bridesmaids should contribute $100 each.
  
  

Best Man and Maid of Honor

• These two people have a special place of honor in the bridal party. Their gift should be around $150.
  
  

Close Friends

• Friends who are very close to the couple should give them at least $100.