Is he a player or is he a good guy? Are you interested in a guy but you can't seem to get a read on what type of a person he is? Would you like to know before you enter a relationship with him whether he is the type of guy who will melt your heart or crush it? Fortunately for you, dating experts have been watching relationships for decades and have conclude that there are four things a good guy would never expect of you.
To learn what those four things are and how to keep your heart safe, keep reading the rest of this article.
Don't Call Me, Don't Show up Unexpectedly Here is a good rule of thumb to live by: the easier it is to get in contact with him the lower the chances are of him being a player.
Quite frankly, only players will get upset if their women call them or come over unexpectedly.
Why is that? They are juggling more than one love interest, so by coming over randomly or calling randomly you put them at an even greater risk of getting caught.
Change Your Personality to Accommodate Me If he truly loved you, he would accept you just the way you are.
You won't have to change the way you act.
You wouldn't have to change the way you dress.
You wouldn't have to change the way you talk.
If it seems as if you are becoming a new person due to your relationship then maybe he isn't as good of a guy as you thought he was.
Players want you to change so you can fit into their crazy lifestyle.
Good guys just enjoy the time that they have to spend with you.
Trust Me Even Though I May Occasionally Tell Half Truths Players will expect you to trust them despite the fact that they may have lied to you multiple times.
They will expect you to trust them despite the fact that they cheated in the past.
No matter how shady they are, they will demand that you give them the utmost respect and trust their every word.
Good guys on the other hand don't demand your trust, they earn it.
They will keep their word even if it's something small, and if they do mess up they will be the first to admit their fault and sincerely ask you for your forgiveness.
If You Love Me, Then Let's Have Sex This is a classic trap that players have been setting for years.
These use your emotions and feelings to get into bed with you.
Then once they've had their way with you they quickly lose interest.
A good guy will not only be focused on having sex with you.
He will actually want to spend some quality time with you getting to know you on a personal and emotional level.