If you are looking for tips on winning your ex back, then you must know what mistakes you must avoid. Doing certain things will only cause you to push your ex away. To put it simply, you must try not to commit any acts of desperation.

Why is that so? Because this is human nature. People want what they do not have. It is just like money. When people do not have money, they will desire it more.

If you look at it from another perspective, you will realized that the reverse is also very valid. When people can easily have something, their desire for it will fall. For example, people who have lots of money will no longer desire money as much. They will start to look for other things such as fame, recognition, fulfilment etc.

If you commit acts of desperation, what signals do you think you are sending to your ex. Your ex will easily realized that he/she is the one in control. He/she is the one who can easily have you. Thus, your ex desire for you will not be very strong. In fact, he/she will quickly become disinterested in you.

If you want to win your ex back, here is what you should do instead.

If you have been chasing him or her for a very long time and nothing seems to be working, it is time to adopt a different strategy. Doing the same thing over and over again is definitely not going to give you a different result, unless miracles happen.

Start withdrawing from your ex instead. Let him/her realize that you are slipping away from his/her grasp. If he/she does not start to chase you back, you will be gone forever.

There are people who manage to get their ex back by doing so.