It is difficult to find the best ways to ask a girl out.
Unless you are a cocky bastard or have already studied all the techniques on how to attract women, asking a girl out for the first time can be a little intimidating.
I must say, I have been getting pretty good at this and it comes pretty easy to me now, but I still feel the butterflies a little if I really want a girl to say yes.
There is a method you can use that will assist you in making this easier and making you far more likely to be successful.
Best way to ask a girl out: The casual approach Fancy pickup lines and cocky-funny attitude have their time and place.
Confidence and positive attitude are always extremely important.
But how do you actually do it? What are the exact steps you take to ask out a girl? I like to use a casual approach.
First thing to know is that this is situational.
It is always best to introduce yourself and try to start a conversation.
First of all this helps you, why would you want to take a girl out and spend money on her if you know that you do not like her.
Second of all it gives you a chance to let her know about you and what a great guy you are.
Of course you have to strive to be confident, funny, charming, witty and positive.
Show me the money-what is the casual approach The casual approach is pretty simple, when you ask a girl out, you are not going to say "let me but you dinner tomorrow" night.
You are going to say, "I am going to be at (wherever) tomorrow night for dinner, trying out their new (whatever).
I hear it is really good.
I will be there around 8.
Are you interested in meeting me there?" You will notice a few things.
You never exactly asked her out, you just invited her along, so if she says no, perhaps it shouldn't sting as much, you could see it as her is rejecting the venue not you.
If she says yes, you can get her phone number, "in case something comes up".
By asking it this way you are telling her that you are going to be having a fun time tomorrow, rather than you need her at some future date and time to be able to have fun.
It is a subtle distinction, but it works.