Do you remember when you first fell in love? Do you remember the feeling of butterflies in the stomach? Do you remember spending hours talking about nothing and nights dreaming about your beloved? Love is a crazy, inexplicable obsession! People don't get married because it makes logical sense.
You don't get married because it's a safe choice.
You don't get married because you want to pick up somebody's socks for the Next 50 years.
You especially don't get married to work on your problems for the rest of your life.
You got married because you were so crazy in love you could not imagine your life without your spouse! What happened to that love? Maybe a major life event, like a bankruptcy, serious illness, or death of a loved one, somehow changed your marriage.
Maybe the marriage changed after kids came along.
Maybe you're both a little bit stubborn, and spend your days trying to change one another.
Whatever happened to your passionate love affair, you CAN get it back! When you understand the cause of marital problems is a lack of connection, you realize that a successful marriage requires an extreme! connection.
You see, love is not blasé.
Love is not "ok.
" Love is not vanilla.
Love is extreme! Therefore, if you want to save your marriage, · Ordinary measures WILL NOT do.
· Doing the "same 'ol, same 'ol" WILL NOT work.
· "Working on your marriage" is too tedious.
If you want to save your marriage, you MUST rebuild your connection.
· It doesn't matter if you're spouse doesn't want to work on the marriage.
· It doesn't matter if you're mired in endless conflict.
· It doesn't matter if it seems like the passion is gone.
· It doesn't matter if you've heard the infamous "I love you, but I'm not in love with you.
" · You CAN rekindle the passion and romance in your marriage WHEN you rebuild your connection! Your "Secret Weapon" is your connection.
· When you repair and rebuild your connection, · You start a snowball of positive change.
· Your spouse will appreciate you more.
· Your efforts will be multiplied.
· Your mistakes will be minimized.
· Your communication will improve.
· Your conflict will reduce.
· You will raise the romance through the roof! If your marriage is in trouble today, stop whatever you're doing and rebuild your connection first.
Once you've activated your secret weapon, the rest is easy peasy.