In uniform dating, writing three or five page e-mails is equivalent to waving goodbye to your prospect date, unless you want that, think before hitting that send button.
After your have created a great profile, the worst thing that could happen is getting a one-way ticket to uniform dating limbo from sending too-long e-mails.
Gasp! What? You're not supposed to write a novel?! Well, yes.
You're composing an e-mail and not an autobiography or essay.
Emails should be simple, short and straightforward so as to keep your contact interested and asking for more.
You are composing an e-mail, it doesn't need to be lengthy and complex.
Set aside those heart wrenching stories of your childhood to your teenage life up to your present life when you two finally have an offline relationship and are going out in person.
Before you start writing your e-mail, you must first read through your military single's profile and create a draft and write down statements that implies you have read through his profile.
Why? This serves as a guarantee that you have indeed read their profiles and are genuinely attracted to them.
What's more, they'd make a great filler for those awkward silent moments.
If you share more interests it means you have more to talk about, right? Short versus long e-mails.
Shorter e-mails exude confidence while lengthy ones can be dragging.
Shorter paragraphs are easier to read, compared to lengthy ones.
So keep your e-mails short and simple, avoid relating everything in just one go.
End your e-mails in a call-to-action statement, this would encourage your contact to get in touch with you in a way.
Composing long e-mails can limit your ideas on what to write in your next e-mails.
Not to mention, it's highly possible that you keep on repeating what you have stated in your previous e-mails.
Instead of saying something new, you just end up talking like, say "did I tell you that...
" or "did I mention that...
", yes you have! and a hundred times in your e-mail and the ones before that.
Keep your uniform single interested, avoid laying out all your cards before you run out of things to say.
Communicating via e-mails gives you more time to organize your thoughts and sort out ideas on what you would want to share with him, as opposed using instant messages or chatting.
Moreover, your military single will be more at ease because they can take time to understand your e-mail and at the same time "meeting" that stranger out of the blue.
Enjoy writing the short catchy e-mails and let your personality shine through!