You could be questioning why it is that some women get love while others don't. Women who are more pretty, successful, and smarter than others haven`t found it and this might be baffling you. But love doesn't have to do with merit does it? Here are some factors why some women find love and others don't.

Looking in the right place

Finding love can be very much like fishing. If you're fishing in the ocean, you're not going to catch a fresh water fish. Finding love means searching for love in the right places. Meeting the man of your dreams means only searching for him in places that he will most likely be found. Join clubs and do activities that highlight the qualities that you find attractive in the man of your dreams. Looking in the wrong places will just use up your time, and only confuse you with someone who will just take up your time.

Approval, make him feel accepted

Men are attracted to others who make them feel accepted. A woman who won't expect too much from him or the way he acts, what she wants from the relationship or the gifts she gets from him. He wants life to be easy going, so naturally, will want to be with someone who can keep it that way.

Independent/ Make him feel desirable

Whether it's; financially, emotionally, or relationally, men can find independence attractive in a woman. We all know that being too needy can be a turn off. But did we know that being independent can be a turn-on? An independent woman will not only appeal to the men who want a low-maintenance companion, but also puts out the vibe that she's strong and doesn't need him, making him think that she needs to be pursued.

On the other hand, some women are the opposite. This can also be a turn-on to some men. There are men around who want to take care of their woman, and a more dependent woman can touch his masculine, heroic, loving side.

To be safe if you don't know him yet, display both sides and have a healthy balance of each, not overbearing on either.

Fits in well with friends/family

Many times a relationship doesn't just have to do with the couple involved, but with friends and family as well. This can mean that chemistry doesn't just have to do with the two of them, but how well she fits in with friends and family. Where lovers may come and go friends and family are more long-term. So when it comes down to who doesn't fit in with his life, he picks the more dependable factor, his friends over her.

Balance

A level-headed woman who knows how to keep her cool, and maintain her emotional intelligence can be what men find attractive in a woman. Men aren't going to like drama and do like to keep things easy going, so this is why they want a stable match.

Fits into his daily activities

Chemistry doesn't always have to do with two individuals, but with his lifestyle. This means the portion of time he gets to himself, his financial situation, their aspirations, vacationing, mobility, people he associates with, and other variables. Chemistry and attraction doesn't always have to do with two people, but sometimes has to do with how well they match each other's lifestyle.

The right time in their lives

The right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing. Love happening is related to the right timing in life. When; work, feelings, wants, and biological clock's pair just right. Where the both of them met and were looking for love in the right time in their lives, that`s when love will strike.

Luck

Whether it's that they met the right people, or have a lot of connections, luck can now and then be the final factor. There's not much that can be done for luck, except to get yourself out there and meet as many people as you can, increasing  your chances of meeting the right one.

The right friends

Friends and family who have paired them up well could be the reason that made love take place. They could just be fortunate enough that when her friend met the right man for her, she was thinking of matching them together. Sometimes life isn`t about your own abilities, but who you know in life. Get the word out that you`re looking for a match, who knows, maybe your friend knows just the right guy for you. They`ve just forgotten about your present situation.

Women have different guidelines on attraction

Women and men have different standards on what they find attractive. On top of which, everybody's different. This means that people can have completely unique standards on what they find attractive about the opposite sex. This is even truer when it comes to the personality traits that people find attractive in others.

Written off too early

Most couples don't fall in love at first sight. Sometimes attraction takes time to happen. Writing him off as unattractive or putting him in the friend zone too early can be premature.  Most couples are established from friendships and people spending time together before deciding whether they are attracted to each other or not.

There are many factors when it comes to finding love, and wondering why a couple has it won`t necessarily give you the results that will help you find love. Keep searching, stay optimistic, and keep your hopes up, love will find you soon.

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