Getting your ex to call you back can be easier said than done. Even if it may not look like it, he or she is missing you just about as much as you miss them. So why aren't they calling you back then? This is because they don't want the pain of missing you to come back and they haven't decided to reunite with you YET.

Luckily there are thrilling words you can make use of that is going to guarantee you get your ex to call you back fast and I will share what I have learned with you.

*WARNING* This method is quite effective and if you make use of it alone without a full strategy or plan of action it might worsen the situation.

First I will tell you two things to NEVER say since it does not work and can cause more harm than good, it puts you and your ex in bad emotional situations that can stop any possibility of getting back together.

1. "This is an emergency, call me back as soon as you get this"

2. "Please call me back; I need to discuss something with you"

Any calls you were considering making along those lines needs to be right away scrapped from your words!

Therefore, what am I supposed to say?

So as to get your ex to call you back you must know what motivates people and the significance of human psychology. The two most powerful motivators are Self Interest and Curiosity. When you combine both motivators, it works very well!

Try this the next time you call. "Hey Katie, I was just calling to thank you for what you did for me. Call me back when you get some time so I can thank you personally".

BAM! You just peeked the curiosity and self interest of your ex since they wants to know what it is they did for you that you are calling to appreciate

*WARNING* Recall that I earlier said you need to have a plan of action BEFORE you give your ex a call. Here is why you must have a "system".

If you give them a call without figuring out what they did for you, the discussion will get messy real quick. Luckily you can appreciate something small. It cant be clingy or needy though!

*2nd Warning* If you dont know what to say or do before, during and after the call, DONT give them a call. This will cause more harm than good.