I am sure that you have seen enough movies to know that the intercourse orgasm has an almost mythical place in our culture.
In the movie, the stunning handsome guy lays the perfectly proportioned woman down and has sex for hours, slowly and passionately, before orgasming at exactly the same time as her.
While this works well on celluloid, the truth is that an intercourse orgasm, let alone a simultaneous intercourse orgasm is actually a quite advanced sex skill.
However there are some useful tips to make it a lot more likely that you will have one.
Intercourse Orgasm Fun There are a few things that are needed to make sure that you can orgasm at the same time.
The first is that you need to be able to make her orgasm reliably.
At first you probably give her her first orgasm from stroking and caressing her clitoris or G-spot with your fingers or tongue.
As she gets used to orgasming with you, you will soon discover that giving her an orgasm with your tongue/ fingers first, then entering her makes her far more likely to have an intercourse orgasm.
The Guy's Role In the Orgasm In this case, the tougher role is yours.
Many men find it difficult to tell when a woman has an orgasm.
Therefore you will need to understand her orgasm process and your orgasm process.
Once you have given her a couple of orgasms, you will start to see what an orgasm looks like for her and how to predict when she is about to have one.
This varies for each woman, so enjoy the process of finding out all about her and her body.
Once you understand her unique arousal process, you can soon predict her orgasm.
Making yourself orgasm requires a bit of practice.
There are two ingredients for men.
The first is that you need to be aware of your own level of excitement.
Either with your partner or by yourself, bring yourself almost to the point where you will orgasm and notice how it feels.
Usually there will be a distinct pattern that happens before you orgasm and you will be able to control this by either imagining something that turns you on to make yourself orgasm (Also known as a trigger point) or keeping your mind as empty as possible to relax yourself and bring the orgasm further away.
The images that make you more likely to orgasm are the really useful ones as the key to having a simultaneous orgasm is being able to use these images at the right time to push yourself into the orgasm exactly when you need to.
There are a few other things that rob you of orgasm control.
If you are tired, stressed or excited, your orgasm control will be very poor and you may not even be able to orgasm at all! On the other hand on some days you will just find that your head is full of sexual images and that you orgasm without any control.
There is not a lot you can do on these days and that is okay you don't have to blow her mind every session (In fact, as I argued in my book, it is sometimes best not to).
Even the best sex masters don`t achieve simultaneous orgasm every time they have sex.
Better Sex Once you have got the hang of these techniques, simultaneous orgasms will become easy to perform.
The extra rush of combined energy in a simultaneous orgasm will make it so much better for both of you.
Once you combine your sexual energies and have one of these orgasms, you will soon realize why the hero always has sex with the heroine this way in movies...