The key to meeting women is to be charming. To most men, being charming is showering women with endless compliments about how beautiful they are. This is not charming. It's not charming because you're simply telling her what every other guy has told her before you. In turn, this doesn't make a woman want to be with you based on that.

So then, what exactly is charm and how do we use it to attract women?

First, let's look at the definition of charm. According to the dictionary, charm is the power to delight or attract. To put it a different way, it means to be intriguing and be able to intrigue. To be charming, it means you often have to do things against the grain - to be different from the others, in a good way. This is what helps set you apart from all the other guys.

So, what are some ways to be charming?

Having confidence is one. Most guys are intimidated by the mere thought of approaching a woman. With that in mind, having the ability to go up to any woman in the room is not only a sure sign of confidence, it's also part of having charm.

Another sign of charm is using your body language in a confident manner. For example, a typical guy might get eye contact with a woman and smile. A charming guy will get eye contact with a woman and raise his eyebrows up and down or even wink. This truly exudes confidence.

Being witty and being able to tell stories is another form of being charming. Courting a woman is often like sparring. The guys pushes a little bit, and the woman pushes a little back. So, women love when a guy can not only play, but isn't also intimidated by a woman's challenges. We've said it here before and we'll say it again: women love challenges. Nice is boring. Women love men who can mix it up a bit. So let's say you meet a woman at a bar and decide to play some pool. Just playing pool is dull. But playing pool, and making witty comments in between about how "bad" of player she is…ah, that does it!

On the same token, Women love storytellers, especially from men who've not only had lots of life experiences, but also knows to how to share stories, not just tell them. Most women are information seekers. They're all about the details. And if you can speak to them in "their language" as far as travel, recreation, and culture, you're in!

The art of charm is also finding unconventional ways to get a woman's attention. For example, instead of just asking for a woman's number after speaking to her a bit, just taking her cell and programming your number into her phone for her. Now that's balls! And charm.

Another example of charm: having the sophistication of knowing how to mix drinks, knowing how to dance all sorts of styles, getting the VIP treatment and such. Women love being treated like princesses. And they love men who are handy, already know what women like, and know how to get things done.

In other words, women love men with a sense of power. It doesn't mean you have to be President of the United States, but be able to influence people and win them over.

If a woman sees for herself that people react to you in a positive light, then it in turns tells them that you obviously have charm to get into the VIP room, free drinks, and even be able to hop over the other side of the bar to make your woman friend a drink. Talk about impressive.

Of course, things like that usually do come at a cost. Unless your family owns a bar, expect to tip key club employees well to gain access to "the extras."

There are many books on this subject, if you're interested in further learning all the aspects of this.

The bottom line is: charm isn't just the act of being charming. It's an attitude. And it's an attitude that can be learned in time with practice and skill. A good way to really grasp the concept of being charming is to watch TV and movies with charming characters in it, study their mannerisms, and learn from the best.