Are you currently wondering how to win your ex girlfriend back? If you are then you may be dealing with more than a little bit of frustration since it is certainly not the easiest process in the world. When a relationship breaks up, the ability to patch it back together is a delicate one. However, there is no reason to feel despondent since it is possible to achieve the desired result that you seek. Here is a look at several helpful steps that can allow you to achieve the goal of how to get your ex lover back:

The approach that is much more mature and actually works is to accept the breakup. It may be completely contrary to what you are feeling, but you have to get your girlfriend to feel like you are completely fine with the breakup and that it doesn't matter to you whether you two are together or not.

As stated earlier, this will be contrary to how you feel, and you may not be able to even get yourself to actually feel this way, but by convincing her that you don't need her, you will actually make her want to get back together with you.

After a break up, you both will need time to recoup. Give your ex girlfriend her time and space. This gap can be utilized in the most effective way, to understand each other's views in the best manner. The one thing you must not be doing is calling her frequently. Of course, there is no harm in inquiring about her welfare. Avoid calling her directly but if there is no other alternative then make sure your calls are quick and to the point. The purpose of the call should be to know if everything is alright at her end.

So now we know she is going to be extremely interested in you again, but you must remember the ONLY reason she is interested now, is because she doesn't know what you are up to. This will leave your ex curious as to why you suddenly have a change of heart, why you have stopped trying to call her and more importantly if you still want her.

In due course the need to know will get the better of her and she will start to reach out to you. You now must act gradually, come off as casual and relaxed, and regain her love. Bear in mind, even though she is reaching out doesn't mean that you have got her back, it merely indicates that she's is interested and that things are starting to turn to your benefit. So handle things gradual and don't stop drawing her in. This will really make your ex want you bad.

The above tips are proven methods, try following them and you will surely get your ex girlfriend back. Never ever let her know that without her your life is horrible but you can let her know that you miss her. In a bid to getting you girlfriend back, never apportion blames, just discuss the issue and let it go. I will advice that you both bury the hatchet and allow every bitterness and bickering to go and both of you will feel a new wave of life