And yes, that includes flirting.
Now, when you're with a man you totally like (and chances are, he's well aware of it), he will expect you to be all giggly and self-conscious and antsy and anxious and nervous - the typical female reaction when plagued with the uncontrollable sting of attraction.
Before you come off as a bore, here are five questions to ask a man - know it, use and ask it - nothing can be a perfect way to get to know him better.
- So how do you spend your weekend? Teasing? Provocative? Or just downright playful? This question is perfect when you're both sporting a very easygoing mood and you just want to tickle his imagination a bit.
But her, this isn't for flirting purposes only.
He might give you a serious answer about what he does on a weekend and might invite you to come over.
Try to ask this out casually or right after you've shared about your activities on a weekend.
That one sleek move right there.
- What's so fascinating about sushi? Find out about his inner passion (painting, basketball, cooking, singing) and go ahead and inquire about this interest of his.
He will be more than willing to provide you with an answer - chances are you'll be on this subject for while or might be even glued on it for hours! Go ahead and share something about your hobbies and interests as well.
Nothing beats talking about your favorite stuff and favorite things to do - it's a great way to get to know each other better - and a great way to flirt too! - How many girlfriends have you had so far? A pretty serious question? Nah...
Chances are, he'll lie anyway.
He may say the truth to get it over with or lie because he wants to get it over with - or because he wants to have a shot at you.
But hey, this is a good starter question to make the mood light and comfortable - just make sure he has not recently broken up with someone.
That's going to ruin his mood big time.