In today's high-tech and fast-paced world, many people have forgotten about basics of dating.
Women are thankful when men know and act upon certain age-old basics: body language, honesty, and balanced conversation.
More than Words Men tend to think that communication is all about words.
Women, however, tend to be attuned to nonverbal communication too; they are masters of intuition and subtlety.
Therefore, it's important to use body language that shows you're interested in her and only her.
These tips can help: 1.
When you're in public, keep your eyes on your date, not on all the other people passing by.
If you are easily distracted, then compensate for your attention span! For example, choose a restaurant seat that will bring the least distraction.
2.
Turn off your mobile phone.
3.
Lean forward ever so slightly when you speak with her.
It will give the effect of creating a special space just for the two of you.
Keep it Real Many men show a false face to dates.
They might lie about a past marriage, their income, their eating habits, or really anything at all! Why? Of course, they are trying to convince the woman that they are a fabulous match.
This strategy probably won't hurt you in the short-term; many one-night stands involve considerable lying by both parties.
However, dishonesty will destroy any real relationship.
A true sign of maturity is the ability to overcome the fear of being honest.
Most women report that what matters most is honesty.
If she's a vegetarian, for example, she'd rather know from the beginning that you crave hamburgers.
If you lead her to believe that you find meat abhorrent, but then get caught in your car with a bagful of McDonald's, she'll wonder what else you've lied about.
You won't likely find a way out.
Once trust is lost, it is extremely difficult to find.
Questions and Answers The best conversationalists are often the best listeners.
Of course, your date will ask questions about you, and you should take this opportunity to share what matters to you.
However, you should avoid dominating the conversation.
Be sure to find out about her likes, dislikes, and general interests.
This will show that you're genuinely interested in her and aren't shallow.
And once you know what excites her, you'll have some great ideas for your next date together!