Every situation is different but invariably the breakup probably happened because of some little thing that was blown completely out of proportion.
Then again, it may have been something that was festering for quite some time and finally blew up.
Irregardless of the circumstances the worst thing you can probably do at a time like this is to nag him to come back.
It is tough to calm down when your ex is being totally unreasonable.
If they are being stubborn or foolish it's probably going to take some time for them to come around.
You can get your "boyfriend back" but it's probably best to let him come around on his own.
Unfortunately, most guys are driven further away if you keep reminding them about their faults or the things that THEY need to change.
Whatever has happened in the past can't be changed.
Going back and re-hashing the things that have gone on previously isn't going to accomplish a thing.
Unfortunately, the reality is that you may have to set aside your pride and try to accept him the way he is.
If he is fooling around with other women that's another story and you have every right to be upset! The question at that point is do you REALLY want him back? If you can deal with your own jealousy (which is perfectly reasonable if you were both committed to each other) you are well on your way to getting back together.
Your guy may think he is moving on with a relationship with someone else.
If you do decide to start dating someone else too PLEASE make sure you are doing it because you care about the new man in your life! You can "Stop my breakup" from getting any worse if you try to remain pleasant with everyone in spite of the circumstances.
That's always easier said than done.
It is okay to be hurt if you have gone through a breakup.
After all, we are all human and have feelings.
If he has stooped to trying to make you jealous just to get back at you than he really needs to grow up.
Just try to be better than him if starts pulling that one.
Hopefully, if he is a decent guy at all he will finally come around and realize that he has left the one person in the world (you) that he can't replace.
The old saying you can get further with a "little honey instead of vinegar" really is true.
If he is mean to you when you have a conversation try to bite your tongue and ask him to explain why he feels that way.
Let him have a chance to vent his anger.
Most guys will calm down pretty quickly if you give them a chance.
If he continues to act like a two year by pouting and throwing fits constantly he probably isn't going to change much down the road.
We all get pretty set in our ways.
It never hurts to get a "fresh set of eyes and ears" if you want some advice to get back my boyfriend.
Hopefully, some of the advice in this article will help you get back together and fall in love more than ever before!