One of the things that really helped me understand what works and what does not work in picking up women, was to watch what other guys did when I was in a club.
By carefully observing what the other guys did, it did not take that long for me to link up in my mind certain commonly used techniques that men use that just do not work all that well.
There are a lot of seduction mistakes men make, but many of them can be avoided if you just take the time to observe others in action.
Most won't do that, though.
Most are too impatient to step back and have a look at what others are doing and what is not working.
They figure that the best thing to do is to just take massive action and they will get caught up in that loop where they approach lots of women hoping that their techniques will work on one if they are lucky.
Talk about a real waste of time.
Here are a couple of seduction mistakes men make when they try to pick up women that I have observed time and time again: 1) Bouncing from one woman to another like a ping pong ball.
You've probably seen this before.
The guy that tries to approach as many women as he can in as short of amount of time as possible.
He's blatantly obvious, and he's got no direction.
This is the guy that winds up wasting more time than he will ever know, because he is approaching too many women without having an clear goal in mind.
If you want to be successful picking up women, you have to be a little more "targeted" in who you approach.
The other drawback that comes from bouncing around like this...
is that other women are seeing what he is doing and they already know what he's all about before he even approaches them and they are already to shoot him down as fast as they can.
What the guys who do this do not seem to realize is...
they are making it much harder than it ever has to be.
2) Always needing a sidekick to walk up to a woman.
Here's another mistake that a lot of men make when they try to go out to meet, pick up, and seduce women.
They always have to have a sidekick along with them.
I don't mean when they walk into the club.
That's okay.
I mean, they won't even approach a woman by themselves...
they have to have their buddy with them all of the time.
Look, there's no hand holding with your buddies when it comes to seduction.
Plus, you have to demonstrate to a woman that you have some alpha male qualities to help elevate your status in her eyes, and it's not going to happen when you need a tag along buddy just to make the approach.
If you want to be able to successfully close a woman..
then you need to be able to make the approach by yourself.