Been there done that? Have you been with your partner many years or many times and are in that familiar 'rut?' Want to put some spice back in your love life? Check out these fun and exciting ideas to help you do just that.
I'm hunting rabbit Take turns ordering a toy or treat that appeals to you - without any input from your partner.
Be adventurous and choose something that intrigues you or you wouldn't ordinarily think about using.
Let it be a surprise while waiting for delivery.
When your receive your items, try whatever was bought (unless you really are not comfortable).
If you're scared of what extremes your partner might go to, set some boundaries beforehand - almost all sex toys cannot be returned.
I don't think that needs an explanation.
Not your Mother's Yoga Rent or buy an instructional yoga tape to enjoy at home with your lover.
Add this twist - try it nude! Set the lights low and make sure the room is comfortably warm, use incense and candles for a romantic touch.
Place yoga mats or towels on the floor and remove all of your clothing.
Stretch to your hearts content while admiring your partners pliant and nude body.
Shock the Senses Find a cozy secluded area like a basement, roof, attic, enclosed patio etc.
To get in the mood set up a blanket and lot's of pillows comfortable enough to lounge on.
Keep the lights dim or use a lantern or candles for some ambiance.
Light some incense and play soft relaxing music.
Now the fun part.
Have a pot of tea (flavored if you like) and some ice cubes set aside on a tray.
Take turns orally pleasing each other by alternating the warm sensation of tea in your mouth followed by the cooling sensation of the ice.
You'll definitely have your partner appreciating the efforts.
House Warming Sex isn't just about the bedroom.
Initiate a little hanky panky whether it's in the kitchen or living room, on carpet or stairs.
Some out of the ordinary places to try are closets, crawl spaces, attics, balconies, apartment stairwells, elevators and even your front porch.
I can do that Rent or buy an adult film and instead of just watching it, do it.
This usually works best in a bedroom where you can be sure of having privacy.
Be sure to wear clothes that fit the part, it's hard to pretend you're a super stud wearing plaid boxers your grandma got you for your birthday.
This is a great confidence booster and you are bound to discover new positions or techniques to add to your repertoire.
Get Freaky Fetish parties or clubs are a fun way to embrace your naughty side by exploring different sexual themes with like minded individuals.
If you don't want to run into embarrassing encounters with people you know (your dentist, librarian, mom), wear a mask or a wig (you won't be the only one).
Publicly advertised fetish parties are best bets for first timers as they are usually on the tame side.
Clubs advertised in the back of weekly papers are usually a tad more sinful.
The Yesteryears Recreate the prom night you never had! Dig out your old prom dress or yellow tux, year books and old records.
Rehash how you spent your prom night and with whom as you go through those moldy yearbooks.
If you ended up going dutch then this is your night to recreate the steamy prom night you always dreamed of.
If you want to go all the way, rent a cheesy motel room and giggle all night long.