Maybe the best thing a guy can do for his wife or girlfriend is to get to know her clitoris, intimately! This tiny little spot on her body is like the magic button to bring her to orgasm and back.
The clitoris is located at the front of the vaginal opening, right above where the labia meet.
You'll recognize it by it's pea shape.
The clitoris is covered by a protective hood, and sometimes you have to pull the hood back to find it.
To do this, pull the skin very gently up towards her navel with two fingers.
This will usually do the trick and the clitoris will be visible.
Once you find the clitoris, it's time to see what it can do.
You can start by stimulating it with your fingers.
Try going around it in circles, side to side, or up and down.
The clitoris can be fickle, and what works one day may not work the next.
Ask her if what you are doing feels good.
Ask her for help if it's not going well.
Once you find out what is giving her pleasure, keep it up! If you really want to give her ecstasy though, start using your tongue.
Your tongue is capable of doing so much more for her than your fingers.
You have more flexibility, and the tongue is softer and lubricated.
Try going in circles around her clitoris with your tongue.
A great technique is to gently take her clitoris into your lips, and suck.
Then while doing that, gently flick across the tip of her clitoris with your tongue.
Try different things, always asking her how she likes it.
Have fun with this ultra sensitive spot on her body.