Let's face it! Breaking the ice is the most daunting first step for any man trying to pick up girls.
And it is the man who has to initiate the first step.
No matter how good looking you are, and no matter what supernatural, hypnotic mind power you possess, you simply cannot be sitting at one place and expecting the girls to come and talk to you.
How do you get a girl to talk to you? You have to talk to her first! That's it.
This is a very important reality you have to face up to.
Don't be a fool and buy into the silly idea of some supernatural, mind-over-matter techniques that let you have any girl you want without taking any risks or doing anything.
There are some extremely effective and powerful real world secrets which will enable you to pick up any girl you want.
Read on to discover what these secrets are and you will not sleep alone night after night...
1.
The right conversation opener: This is the most important first step in approaching a girl.
Do it right and you have a warm body by your side.
Do it wrong and you can expect to sleep alone another night or until you have mastered this first step.
When you first approach a girl, both of you are total strangers to each other.
But she is not dumb.
She knows your intention when you approach her.
She might even like you...
but we are civilized social beings and there are certain social protocols which must be followed in such a situation.
And the right thing to do to strike up a conversation with the girl is to ask her some questions or make some comments about impersonal matters such as the weather, the immediate environments or asking what time it is...
etc.
Use your creativity to come out with a list of such simple, impersonal conversational openers before you make your first move.
2.
The follow-through is equally, if not more important than the opener.
You have mustered all your courage and you have finally opened a conversation with her.
So, what now? Keep a smooth flow of conversation with her by expanding on the current topic or changing your topic smoothly and naturally.
Avoid at all cost any prolonged and awkward silence which will kill any chance you will have with the girl.
Don't be pre-occupied with your own amorous thoughts.
This will freeze your mind and blind you to obvious topics of conversation which you can pick up either from the information she provides or from the immediate surroundings.
In this stage, the topics of conversation between the two of you are essential light-hearted and impersonal in nature.
Let's think of it as a warm up step.
The main purpose of this step is to arouse her interest in you.
If she finds your company interesting and fun, she would naturally play along and be led by you to the next level of intimacy.
3.
Make her laugh.
You see, humor is the shortcut to attraction.
When you make a girl laugh, you create instant and close rapport with her.
She will have positive feelings towards you.
With that as a foundation, it is now easier to lead her in a direction you desire.
You will feel a sense of control and power over her.
I cannot over-stress the importance of this skill in seducing hot and beautiful women.
In fact, you can use this skill to cover all the three steps I mention here - from first approach to carrying on a laughter-filled conversation to finally getting the girl to hook on you.