Seduction is like sales.
Not every client you talk to will buy your product.
And not every girl you talk to will end up in love with you.
In fact, very few will.
What kind of world would it be if you could seduce a significant portion of the female population with just a few crafty lines and techniques? The truth is that women evolved a strong defensive system against such trickery thousands and thousands of years ago.
For the most part of human history, single mothers were doomed to poverty, and their kids didn't have much chance of survival.
This is why women are always extremely skeptical when meeting guys for the first time.
That's why you've got to see this as a numbers game.
A girls got to feel comfortable with you.
And for all intents and purposes, this is pretty random.
A girl's "type" is based on a huge collection of instincts, subconscious beliefs, past history and upbringing.
While you can use trick and fakery to convince her that you're her type when you're really not, a better method might be to see the landscape of girls that same way salespeople see the landscape of potential clients.
In this respect, you've got to always be prospecting.
Where do you prospect? Anywhere you can.
Unlike sales, where they spend Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays prospecting, and Thursdays and Fridays going on sales calls, you've got to prospect any where and any way you could.
How? Well, at work you can't and shouldn't do much.
Too dangerous.
But where you go in your private life should be largely based on how many available women are there.
While you shouldn't pick your hangouts based solely on the amount of females, it should be something you should consider.
Bookstores, libraries, coffee shops, donut shops, bagel shops, whatever kind of shop you buy stuff from on a regular basis should be staffed with and otherwise filled with women.
If it isn't find another place.
You should create a lifestyle for yourself where as often as possible, you are in a situation where you see attractive and available women.
So long as you're there primarily for whatever they've got, coffee or books, you'll have a fighting chance.
Always be outgoing and talkative.
Get to know the staff.
Get to know the regular customers.
Be friendly and accessible.
If you see somebody attractive, think of a reason to start a conversation.
If it goes well, get her number.
If you make this your habit, and you're always prospecting, the sales, so to speak, will start happening on a regular basis.
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