Saying that love can be hard to let go is definitely an understatement of the highest order. When someone, a woman, breaks up with you - it's not like you can just shrug your shoulders and be totally okay with the idea that she might never be your girlfriend again. While it can be hard to let go of someone you love so much, sometimes you are going to find that not only is it the right thing to do, sometimes it is the only thing that you can do if you are going to be able to handle this situation correctly.

What can you do when you feel like you just have to let go and there is nothing really that you can do to change things and change the mind of your ex girlfriend?

Friends can be a big help here, as it is your friends that are really going to have your back and give you the chance to stop thinking about her all of the time. If you don't have friends to rely on in a situation like this, I can pretty much assure you that you are going to find it much harder to let go of the love that you feel for your ex girlfriend. Don't take them for granted, because like I said, they might be the one thing that really helps you let go of the woman you still love.

Another thing that you might want to consider doing is to think about what options that you have at the moment. You are free to do what you want, so you do have the option to see if there are any other women out there who might interest you. Finding out that your ex girlfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore can hurt, but it is definitely going to hurt a lot less if you feel as though you still have a pretty good chance of being able to meet another woman to kind of replace your ex girlfriend.

Lastly, I would also suggest that you think about the option of trying to make your ex girlfriend feel attracted to you again. This is something that you don't want to take too lightly, because of the reality of what it is going to take to make her feel this way about you again. You can't just wish her to feel that way again and have it happen. You are going to have to do certain things that make her feel as though she is falling in love with you again.

It's not impossible to get through finding out that your ex girlfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore if you can find a way to let go of that desire to be with her again. And even if you don't want to let go completely, you have to let go to a certain extent if you want to be able to find a way to be with her again.