Yes, that is right, when performed correctly Fellatio can be elevated into an art form.
Not sure what to do? Is what you are doing really turning him on? If this is you, read on.
This is not to say that every man will like what is here, it is to say, that with so many different techniques to use, these work the best on me.
And maybe you can find one or two that will work great on your man.
Please allow me to clarify that my fiancé is the one who tries this on me, and it has taken some time to actually pay attention to the details to be able to talk about what she does.
She says that in the beginning it is all about the tease.
That's right, the tease.
I never know when she will really begin and I will end.
Even though I know she will start with licking my testicles and inner thighs moving between the two with the occasional small nip in between, it still gets me hot.
Once she feels my response she uses just her tongue and licks the head of my penis.
Always she is listening or feeling for a response to what is going on, this way she can tell when my full attention is on what is happening.
After a minute, usually, of this special brand of torment she will lick and nip her way down the shaft of my penis.
Note, so far she has not taken me into her mouth.
All about the tease, she says.
Now, to mix it up, she goes right back to my inner thighs.
Why not? She wants to keep me guessing as to what will happen next.
And then, just when I think she won't, her lips are around me, and I am disappearing into her mouth.
The intense pleasure that can be felt with a tongue manipulating the shaft of your penis is indescribable.
Never stay with the mind numbing up and down motion, use your tongue to move from side to side, and up and down within your mouth.
Keep the rhythm changing; do not continue with the repetitive motion.
Try not to go all the way down every time, break up the place where you stop, and how you stop.
One time pull your cheeks into you and really suck.
You know we have all heard the one about a bowling ball through a garden hose? Try it.
There is a reason that old joke has been around for so long.
The next time, use you head, and bring your tongue from left to right as you continue up the shaft.
Once you know that your man is really getting into this, TEASE.
Yes, not only will you have his attention like you never had before, it will drive him wild.
For the full affect, leave the genital area entirely.
Go for the soft kisses on his neck, licking his chest, maybe the ear lobe bit.
Anything, simply to keep him guessing and wondering what he needs to do to get you back to his penis.
Since you now have him completely tormented, go for the grand finale.
Seemingly out of the blue, go right back to his penis, and go all the way down.
Yes for some people that are almost choking as you gag, this is well worth it.
Pull yourself in for the most amount of suction you can possibly get.
Take this about half way up, and go back for more.
Here is the only time that you really want to establish a rhythm.
Allow him to dictate this rhythm.
At first, this will be difficult, try to relax and go with it.
If you change it up too much, he may not be able to reach a climax.
Let him move his body why you remain as close to your position as you can.
If you do feel that you are going to gag, move your head back a little until you are out of the range.
These are simply the basics, and you will need to master the basics before you can elevate them to an art form.
There will be a later article to incorporate fingertips into increasing the pleasure.
For now, this is enough to get started, and make you both wanting more.
And remember...
keep it enjoyable!!!