Shyness is a major problem that many men refuse to acknowledge I receive dozens of emails everyday and virtually all of the men mention that they have problems dealing with shyness and fear of rejection.
Shyness is a major issue when it comes to dating.
Being shy inhibits you and prevents you from doing all the things you would like to do in life (not just dating).
What we're going to do is talk about how you can overcome shyness and have a great dating/sex life...
a great life in general.
So the question is, is your shyness constantly preventing you from being with gorgeous women? Are you continuously letting countless opportunities pass you by? Are you allowing the woman you're crazy about to leave the bar with someone else? If so, pay close attention.
Overcoming shyness starts with self belief You could not keep your eyes off of her because you thought she was smoking hot, but you did nothing about it.
Many men are intimidated by beauty.
But no man should be intimidated to the point where he wont approach a woman that he likes.
Ask yourself this question before you approach any woman: "What's the worse that can happen?" If she rejects you...
big deal.
Just move on to the next chick.
When a guy second-guesses himself it's because he lacks confidence and has no self-belief.
You must find ways to gradually build your confidence.
A great way to overcome shyness and slowly build confidence is to talk to strangers.
If you feel intimidated by beautiful women you must take small steps towards getting over your shyness.
For starters, approaching strangers, who are less intimidating than beautiful women, is a great way to get the ball rolling.
The next time you go out, start a little conversation with someone...
anyone.
It doesn't have to be a long, extended conversation.
For example, when you see an approachable person walking in your direction just say, "Excuse me.
How are you doing? Do you have the time?"I found this to work amazingly well.
You can also ask someone for directions--even if you don't really need it.
The point is you are building up your confidence by approaching complete strangers.
The more you do this the more your confidence will build to new heights.
Your shyness will be totally diminished once you are comfortable talking to strangers Drinking and smoking can't rid you of your shyness Drinking and taking drugs can't change you or rid you of your shyness.
Don't believe the hype.
Yeah, once you get a little buzz, you will be a bit "loosened up" and not be as shy and nervous as you normally would.
But what happens after you are sober again? What happens when you're not high anymore? Back to square one.
Wrapping things up...
You must first realize that you have a problem.
If you are reading this, congratulations, you already have the hardest part out of the way.
Most people cower when it's time to face their fears (in this case, shyness)...
therefore, living an unfulfilled "what could have been" lifestyle.
This will not be you.
You will do everything you have always wanted to do.
Including having steamy sex with all the beautiful women you could have hoped for.