If your reading this article, than your love life is most likely not where you want it back. The good news is that if your going through a breakup or separation, there are things that you can do to make your ex want you back. This will require patience and some actual self evaluation, but it is possible to make your ex want you back.

Have you ever heard the phrase "leave something to be desired"? Would you want to take someone back who calls, texts and emails you constantly begging for a second chance and apologizing? I know that would just push me further away. So if this is your strategy up until now, then stop it.

This will not make your ex want you back. You need space apart and that means no contact for a period of time. Let your significant other know that you are ok with the situation and leave it at that. Don't just mope around and bombard your ex with apologizes and crazy promises.

While you have this time apart, do something productive with it. I will be willing to bet that there are things that you like to do that you put on the back burner to spend time with your significant other. Do these things and have fun. If your ex sees that you are enjoying life instead of being miserable, then they will most likely make your ex want you back. Do you think that stalking and bothering them will make your ex want you back?

Look at your relationship and see what you need to change that will make your ex want you back. This isn't easy because you will have to really examine why they left and what you are willing to change to get them back. Don't make promises to change that you aren't willing to do. This will just make your second chance bomb and ruin any chance to make your ex want you back.