Have you been banging your head against the wall trying to figure out what women really want in a man? Have you grown tired of all of the cliches that men get fed from an early age about how women want a nice guy and that if you are really sweet to a woman she will fall for you? If so, then you should know that you are not alone in feeling that way at all. Guys get caught up in thinking that they know what women want by believing in all of those cliches only to find that this just does not seem to be the reality of it at all.

The real trick to figuring out what do women really want in a man is to pay more attention to what women respond to. It's a well known thing among people who study human behavior that when people get asked certain things, they will reply with an answer that sounds good, but is not necessarily true. So, this is why as a guy, you really have to figure out what women respond to when you want to know what women really want in a man.

Here are 3 simple suggestions that should benefit you and help you figure out what women are after:

1) Just like any guy, most women want to meet someone that they click with.

You know, this is one of the more obvious details about attraction, yet it gets left out all of the time when people toss out those cliche responses like be a nice guy. You can be a nice guy all you want, but if you don't click with a woman, chances are she will not get that feeling of wanting to spend a lot of time with you and of course, that means no cigar when it comes to a relationship.

2) Most women want a guy with some know how when it comes to sex.

This is one of those things that doesn't get talked about much, because for some reason our society does not seem to like to talk about women enjoying sex. Well, they do. And they want to be in a relationship with someone who knows what they are doing in the bedroom. You don't necessarily have to be the "best" there is, but you should know how to get her to orgasm.

3) And the third suggestion is that most women don't want to have to fake it with a guy.

No, I'm not talking about sex again. What I mean is, most women don't want to have to play up a certain role for a guy to like them. This is one area where a regular guy can really have an edge. Let a woman feel totally comfortable being herself around you... and she just might start to think that you are the one she has been waiting for.