In A Relationship and Discouraged Because Of
Your Guy's Lack of Interest?

Relationships between men and women have never been simple.

Here's the story...

You have probably realized by now that Mother Nature, for
whatever reasons, made men and women noticeably different
...physically and emotionally.

Frankly, if you really want to get through to your guy,
you are going to have to find a way to decode his sometimes
discouraging and confusing behavior.

Human Relationships

While we are all human, men and women think differently,
interpret similar events differently, and definitely process
human interpersonal relationships differently.

If you are having trouble with a male/female relationship€¦
you are not alone.

Let me explain.

If you are in relationship with a man and his mind seems to
drift away when talk of engagement rings, weddings, the
direction of your togetherness, starting a family or when some
other topic arises; this does not mean he does not love you.

This means the words you are using are not the right ones
for this moment.

The words you are using or the premise you are basing your
conversation on are causing him to "pull away" rather than
"pull him into" the conversation.

If you observe a pattern of "pulling way" when certain
subjects are being discussed, you can view this as an
opportunity to strengthen your bond with him or allow it to
continue to be a barrier to your happiness.

Men Have Senses Too!

Your guy hears, sees, smells, and feels just as well as, if
not better than, you. While the words in your conversation
sound great and very appropriate to you...your guy having
male sensitivities that are different from yours...deflects
or interprets your words differently.

If this is your situation and you allow it to continue, a
possible danger lies in the fact that real communication is
not happening and it is doubtful if any couple can
overcome a lack of real dialogue...real communication.

Your romance needs constant, open communication to
flourish.

You need to find a way...or the words...to help your guy let
you in. Once you get in, his words and actions will be a lot
less confusing to you because you will have context in which
to put them. You will know which words "pull him in" and which
words "push him away." It's what smart women do. Isn't it?

Follow Your Instincts

If you feel something is not right, or discouraged with the
pace and/or the direction in which your relationship is heading
...do something. Change your strategy or seek advice from
someone you trust.

To successfully achieve the happiness you want for you and your
guy, something in your relationship has to change. Without
change, your plans for your future are headed for failure.

Millions of women have learned how to successfully navigate
through difficult times with their guys and have been able to
build up their relationships and get them to the next level
rather than let them wither away. They find ways to change
the environment of their relationships instead of letting
them fail.

Other Women and Mr. Right

There are millions of very intelligent, highly capable women
looking for Mr. Right to date and marry. They are not about
to let communications issues stand between them and securing
the men they're after.

Are you willing to make every attempt to understand your guy's
hidden feelings?

Are you willing to learn how to communicate with him through
the confusion and his seemingly disinterest in being a couple
...and married...for life?

Once you learn the words and emotions he attaches to the things
he is concerned about, his likes, dislikes, and even fears...you
won't have to worry about him pulling away or avoiding
conversation about plans for your happy, successful future
together.