If you have been silently admiring a guy from afar and receiving signals that you think are positive from him then you should decipher those signals first before you make any move.
You should remember that a serial killer or a cannibal too might be interested in you for obvious reasons.
Serious jokes apart, here are a few steps on how to decipher mixed signals from a man.
Check on him from afar You should look at the man from afar.
If he seems to try to lock on to your eyes and even smiles at you then he is definitely interested.
If, however, he seems to be checking out your curves and does the same with other girls around you then he is interested only in visual titillation He tries to introduce himself to you If the man has made up his mind that he likes you and wants to know you better then he might try to introduce himself to you.
If he seeks out a mutual friend and walks up to you with him only to get introduced to you then he is definitely into you.
He behaves the same with all your friends If the man of your dreams talks and behaves the same with all your friends including you then he does not see you as someone special.
If however, he seems to be mesmerized by your looks and forgets his own name while talking to you then he is simply sending out one clear signal to you.
He uses humor to make you laugh If you find that the man is reserving his best jokes for you in a bid to make you laugh then he could be interested in getting closer to you.
If, however, he uses the same funny line on your girlfriend then he is simply trying his luck to catch anyone that responds favorably to his moves.
He asks his friends about their opinion If the man that you like is equally captivated by you then he will surely ask his friends about their opinion on you.
You might observe him pointing or gesturing towards you while talking to his friends.
He asks only for your phone number If the guy asks for your phone number directly or indirectly then he is surely interested in pursuing you further.
If however, he asks for the numbers of a few of your girlfriends' too then he might only be trying his luck with whoever answers his desperate calls.
He gathers courage to ask you out on a date If the man has been a bit nervous during your first meeting but gathers enough courage to ask you out on a date then he is clearly interested in you.
However, you should make sure that he has asked only you out on a date and that you have been the first one that has been asked by him in that particular party.
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