Many women practice their lines in front of the mirror but when the guy makes an appearance they go weak in their knees and are left tongue tied.
Is this your story too? Well, if it is then do the following and you will have overcome the problem.
Let your eyes acknowledge his presence When you meet him make sure that you show how thrilled you are to see him.
When your eyes light up on seeing him he gets the message that you are happy to see him.
If possible manage a smile that reaches your ears.
Greet him cheerfully This can be practiced and you can also try it on someone to gain confidence.
When you greet him make sure that you convey your happiness in the greeting.
Don't do it as if someone is forcing you to do so.
A cheerful and natural greeting will be well received.
Give him some assurance If the guy you like approaches you speak to him in a normal manner without showing any nervousness.
If he is walking you to the car in the parking engage in some light conversation and if possible ask him to accompany you to have coffee or a quick bite at the nearest eating joint.
This will break the ice and he will ask you out at a later date.
Don't start yak, yak, yakking You have to make the first meeting count and for that you need to leave a very good first impression.
Listen to him more than you speak and hear him out.
This way you will learn a few things about him while retaining your aura of mystery.
This should egg him to meet you again.
Keep the conversation light Avoid discussions on issues where you have to take a position.
Don't discuss politics, human rights or sexuality and restrict the discussion to matters that are light.
If possible pass a funny comment or make a witty remark to lighten the mood.
Ask him if you could meet one more time Keep the initial discussion short and sweet.
However, before taking leave make sure you have an appointment so that you can carry on the interesting discussion further.
This way you will have earned another indirect date.
Cement the bond Your next meeting will be in a much relaxed atmosphere and he will also be at ease.
Now take forward the topics that you discussed earlier.
As the meeting goes on ask him about what he likes to do in his spare time.
You may also discuss your passions and interests.
If there is convergence of interests then you have good chance of taking this relationship forward really fast.
Exchange phone numbers and promise to keep in touch.