It's interesting to me how many men end up being so focused on learning certain techniques to try and get a girlfriend.
They read books, they watch videos, they listen to their buddies, all with the hopes of learning that one magic technique that is going to help them to get a girlfriend fast.
And while it is true that you do need to know some good and proven techniques to attract women, most guys end up trying out the wrong ones.
This is especially true if your goal is to get into a lasting relationship.
One of the most common techniques that men will try to learn in order to get a girlfriend, is to learn as many routines as they can in order to try and impress the women that they meet.
This can help you to get a one night fling if that is what you want, but there is a huge problem with trying to rely on routines if you want to have any kind of relationship with a woman.
Why? Simply because you have to keep the routine going if you are going to keep her interested in you.
Unless you are a guy who does not mind putting on an act all of the time, this is going to end up becoming a real big problem.
I mean, there's going to come a time when you drop the routine and hope that she likes the "real" you, though that's nothing more than a gamble, really.
In my opinion, the best techniques to get a girlfriend, are the ones that are all related to learning how to talk to women and how to read a woman.
When you know how to talk to a woman, when you know how to communicate attraction in a way that makes her respond and when you know how to read her so that you don't say or do the wrong thing at the wrong time...
the odds of you getting a girlfriend shoot through the roof.
So, why do guys try all of the wrong routines? A lot of the times, it is because they don't really believe that they can attract really high quality women without them.
They don't think that they can win her over with their personality, or that a simple conversation can lead to something more.
Routines, and all of the more flashy techniques to attract women may be fine to use if you want to hook up for the night, but if you want to get a girlfriend, then you need to build on the basics.