If the first date has gone well, what do you have to do to get a man to ask you out for another date? Would you like to discover the secret to getting a second or third date with a man you like? Do you wonder what it was that attracted him to you enough to ask you out? The dating game can be a lot of fun, but it can also involve a lot of heartache.
It's probably best to leave it up to him to do the asking at first.
Here's what to do if you want to get a man to ask you out again.
Think about what attracted him to you enough to want to take you out on that first date.
Did he like the fact that you were bubbly and funny, or serious and intense? It doesn't mater how you were, it's remembering how you were that matters, even if was different than the way you usually are.
To get a man to ask you out again, you want him to see you in the same light.
It may be that the next date shows you in a completely different way and that's okay because each time you get together, it presents another opportunity for you to get to know each other better.
Time will tell whether anything lasting will come out of it.
Think about where you were and what you were doing when you met.
If you were at the game cheering on your favorite team when you bumped into each other, you instantly have something in common.
Maybe you met at a party and ended up talking for hours, or leaving and going for a long walk.
Obviously having shared interests is a plus and what's stopping you from doing a repeat.
Having fun together is a great way to enjoy another date.
Think about the kinds of things you found out about him on your first date, or what you know about him.
The next time you see him, you can impress him with your memory by asking a few follow-up questions and get him to talk more about something you learned about him.
Be friendly and warm.
Smile a lot because smiling lights up your face and makes you happier.
It's more fun to get to know someone who is happy than to drag the truth out of someone who looks depressed.
When you are happy the feeling rubs off on the people around you.
It stands to reason that he'll want to be with you if you're one of those happy people.
Make him feel that he's worth getting to know.
Make eye contact when you talk to him.
Have a conversation where you each share thoughts and ideas.
Being interesting and acting interested, is a sure way to get a man to ask you outmore than once.