If you want to know how to win him back after hurting him, you've got to understand the 3 biggest reasons why he's avoiding you.
This article will help you see that your relationship can be saved and what are some things you can do to improve the situation you've created...
Biggest Reason #1 - He's feeling emotional and wants to cool down in his own way Men are not used to asking other people for help to deal with their emotions.
Whether he's feeling hurt, angry, sad, disappointed, etc, he just needs some time to cool down using his own methods.
Just imagine being him: You've been hurt, and now you just need some time away from the person who hurt you.
Isn't that a reasonable thing to ask from someone who claims to care about you? Make sure you read the [warning] in the later part of the article...
Biggest Reason #2 - He doesn't know how to solve the problem between you yet Men instinctively look for solutions when there's a problem.
If he's avoiding you, it might be because he hasn't found a solution to your relationship problems yet.
Until he discovers a satisfactory answer, it doesn't make sense for him to meet you.
He might even be feeling very frustrated or feels like a failure for being unable to come up with a good solution.
Warning! Guys hate it when women offer suggestions without being asked.
Don't make the mistake of trying to solve his problems for him.
Think about it: If you solve his problem for him, what you're actually doing is robbing him of the triumph he feels when he successfully comes up with an answer to a problematic situation.
Don't expect him to thank you for stealing his chance of to feel like a winner...
Biggest Reason #3 - He's afraid you'll hurt him again Have you ever heard the saying: Once bitten, Twice shy? If there's no new evidence to show you've changed, the man you love risks getting hurt again if he re-opens contact with you.
The secret on how to win him back after hurting him is to show him in simple, little ways that you've changed.
The key is to start small.
Because that's how you rebuild trust - by accumulating small pleasant actions and experiences together.
In the beginning, if you send him a text or email, send it as a true gift - without expecting anything in return.
This relieves the pressure off him to reply (he doesn't feel bad for not replying your message) and gives him a tiny reason to start feeling more relaxed about you.