- 1). Keep God at the center of all of your thoughts. Before a split even happens, and while the split is occurring, keep God in your thoughts, actions and words. When you are aware of God and keep him front and center, you will be aware of what you are doing and saying.
- 2). Stay in control of your feelings. There is one person and only one person who you have control over and that person is you. No matter what is said or done during a church split, stay in control of your emotions and feelings. Don't let anger, jealousy, or gossip get in the way of your feelings.
- 3). Create a team environment. Prior to the church split, create teams to help lead both churches during the split. Work together and plan together during this time. The rest of the congregation will follow your leadership and is looking for someone to guide it through this transition. If a team environment is created, the congregation will follow that lead.
- 4). Offer support and encouragement to the new church. Show your support and encouragement to all members who are going to the new church. Let them know that they will always have a home in your church, but you understand that it is time for them to move on. Be understanding to their needs.
- 5). Allow members to make a decision that is right for them. Provide as much counsel as the members need, but allow them to ultimately make their own decisions. They do not need to feel pressure or guilt while making their decision. Let them know that you will be there for them no matter what they decide.
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