When you are asked to be the best man and your buddy's wedding it feels great, at least for awhile.
Soon though the realisation kicks in that you have a lot of responsibilities beyond organising the strippers for the stag night! One of the worst things to consider for most men is how to even start writing the best man speech.
Anxiety and frustration are common for the would-be best man and very often the fear of having to deliver a funny best man speech means that the wedding is ruined for one of the most important guests because you just cannot settle down and relax long enough to enjoy the day.
For some men it just becomes too much of a strain and they either pull-out of the role, which leaves them feeling like a failure and is also majorly disappointing for the groom.
However you do not have to let the fear of the best man wedding speech affect you that way.
It is possible to write a best man toast that has all the elements required from humour to joy and one that can even draw a tear from stone! How is it possible? Well your path to writing the best toast ever starts with some best man wedding speeches that have already been written.
By using someone else's speech as an example and guideline for your own you can quickly learn how to structure your toast.
You can also "borrow" elements (or even huge chunks) from other best man speeches and just change the details, names and dates to suit your situation.
When you learn to do this correctly no-one, even the groom, will realise that the story may never have happened! There are free best man speeches available on the Internet which you can use to get started.
However these speeches, because they are free, have been used so many times you do not want to run the risk of someone noticing you used parts of them.
I would therefore recommend you use a cheap alternative that offers professionally written content rather than using a free best man speech.