Sometimes you expect something from someone or from a relationship but what you get is the converse. And to cure your broken feelings and fix your relationship problems you need help. We are all different from each other. We don’t have the same likes and we react differently to situations.

While others find it appropriate to seek help and accept being aided physically or mentally, other people are very at ease with getting self help. Maybe these people like to value their self esteem. Whether they are married, dating or in love, they prefer keep it discrete and help themselves through books, e-books or e-courses on relationships.

All you need to do is read the books and make sure you follow the advices as there’ll be no mentor to guide you. With the provided guidelines you must cure your feelings, like getting better control of your emotions, forget and forgive when mistakes occur and be comprehensive towards your partner.

You must fix your relationship problems by finding out by yourself, maybe with the help of your spouse what’s bothering you in the relationship. There are many self help books available in the market and on the internet. Be prudent while you choose your authors. Make sure they are reliable, well known and trustworthy sources. The e-books will direct you to various self help techniques where you will discover many simple but worthwhile secrets.

When you say you have to cure yourself, this may mean that you are in a very weak relationship as to surmount these hard feelings your partner’s assistance is enough. It’s better to have your partner beside to help you cure yourself. This will strengthen your bond and at the same time create interest. It will also determine whether you can work in collaboration. Working together is imperative if you want to fix your relationship problems.