I am sure everyone knows that children throw tantrum when they are angry or frustrated. When there are anger in young children, it might be difficult to effectively control their anger. The first step would be stay calm yourself and focus on trying to calm the child down instead of participating in the child's anger.

Start by :

1. Help your kids to calm down by taking a deep breath and start counting to 10.
2. You can help your child to release his or anger by letting him or her drawn out the anger on a drawing board.
3. Bring your child for a walk or do some simple exercise.

Child psychologists recommend that the best way to control a child's anger is to find out what is causing it in the first place. As children does not know how to express certain behaviour correctly, they probably will express their frustration in the form of angry or tantrum.

Once your child is calmed down, the next task would be to find out what is the exact cause of the anger or tantrum. With a calm mind, have a good talk with your kids. This communication with your kids is important as it will built a greater bond relationship between you and your kids. Always remind yourself to be patient and when building the communication with your kids. Find out the cause of the issues that drives the child to be angry. Children see things and understand things in a different way from adults. So, always remind yourself to see things from the child perspectives so that we can better understand why they are angry in the first place.

With a calm mind, both parent and child, work together to resolve the cause of the anger or tantrum to better teach kids anger management skills. Explain to the child that everyone do get angry as well, including yourself as parents. As a role model to your child, help your child to manage his or her anger management skills better and learn to resolve the issues in a good and positive way. And finally, do reward your child for the good effort when they learn to control their expressive anger.

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