There are a few things that you need to know about life and people. First of all, life is difficult and can be harder if you make it this way. It all comes from your hopes, your thinking, your mind, intentions and reactions. People and relationships can be complicated but they don't have to be. New relationships are not easy to form, it can be scare at first but it can be worth at the end. You meet different people and they came from different places, if they have different jobs and occupations, but at least one things in common is people do want to be close on some level or another, people do want to have their needs met and make happy others too. Relationships can be hard to start and built, mostly because some people had bad experiences and it has nothing to do with you, it's all about them and their feelings, their subconscious needs.

What you value might not be the same what others value. What is important to you, might be completely different what is is important to others. Many people are afraid of closeness and intimacy, mostly because they are afraid to let their guard down and invite others in. It's tough to form new meaningful and close relationships, because of the past that everyone has and pain they experienced. People just want to be happy and have their needs met. No one want to hurt or be unhappy. Everybody wants happiness and have their needs met. Everyone wants to be happy in one way or another, you just have to find that way, a path to a person's heart and his subconscious. A person with more needs will get easier time to get attracted to others than a person with less needs. Just because you have more needs, it's o'kay, it doesn't mean that it is bad, usually it means that you have new lessons to learn and figure out something for yourself, your life could be very interesting and exciting because of it.

If you meet someone with similar needs to yours, you could feel really happy. People with similar needs really match and feed each other. All you have to do is to keep searching and trying to find someone who can make you happy and who you can make happy too. It all comes down to different communication styles and showing of affection. Everyone has different past and everyone has unique experience than others. We are all different in our own ways and it's ok to be different. Just because you are different, you aren't a bad person. If you don't know what to do and where to start, then take small steps. Figure out the way to give others what you can offer, without feeling hurt and rejected.