Do you really want to know if your boyfriend or husband is cheating? Do you just want to know the truth and rid your mind of the doubt and suspicion every time he walks out the door? Have you grown paranoid and do you find yourself doubting him every time he says that he has to work late? Do you feel like you're going crazy trying to figure out if he is cheating on you or not? If you confront him he is just going to deny cheating on you.
Chances are your questions will cause him to become more careful and thus more difficult to catch if he is cheating.
And if he isn't cheating you will feel like a fool and never be able to doubt him again which may open up the door of opportunity for him to cheat if he was only thinking about it.
So, how do you find out for sure if your boyfriend or husband is cheating on you? The answer is by using technology.
These days we have all grown so accustomed to using computers and cell phones that most of us don't give it a second though.
Along with these comes the ability to gather more information about people than was ever possible before the widespread use of technology.
Cell Phones - The cell phone makes it very easy for a cheating husband or boyfriend to carry on an affair easily and somewhat secretively.
He can call or text the woman that he is cheating on you with at any time from any place, including your own bathroom or even while he is sitting across the table from you at dinner.
Along with this comes the ability to see each and every phone call and text message that was sent from his cell phone.
Have you checked his cell phone lately? You might think that he has the ability to delete these messages and his history but why not try a little experiment and text him a few times during the day.
Later that night check and see if he deleted your text messages too.
If so then you might want to ask yourself why he is clearing his history? And, of course, information that has been deleted can be recovered.
Internet Usage - Have you checked his internet history on his computer? A quick check of his internet history can tell you what pages he has visited on the internet including email accounts and chat rooms.
Has he been doing his banking online? Do you notice anything peculiar about the sites that he is visiting? Is he on any social networking sites? If so, you should check out who he is friends with and who he is communicating with.
Is his internet history cleared? You do know that the default setting for many web browsers is to hold onto the internet history for twenty days.
Internet history and the cached versions of all web pages he visits can only be cleared manually and the number of days that his internet history is saved can also only be changed manually.
If this has been done you need to wonder what he is hiding? Although none of these are rock solid proof that he is cheating on you it does give you a few good signs that the firm possibility is there.
In order to confirm if he is cheating on you or not you need to dig deeper for the information that will confirm not only if he is cheating but who he is cheating with.
Just remember that technology is your friend if you are hoping to catch your husband or boyfriend in the act.
Painful as it may be to confirm that he is cheating wouldn't it be more painful to find out from a friend or to find them in bed together? Using technology is the easiest way to catch a cheating husband or boyfriend.