Does this sound familiar? You and your mate are arguing and complaining about where you are at in your relationship.
Both of you seem to be unhappy with one another.
You don't want it be like this.
Every time you go out on a date, it ends in cross words and slammed doors, because you started talking about your problems.
If your relationship is on the rocks and you want to get back to a nice calm of love, there must be passion.
Passion is any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling.
That is the dictionary definition of the word.
But what does it mean and how do you get it back into your relationship? Here are a couple of tips on setting up emotionally charged dates with your mate: Do something out of the ordinary.
Let's say that when you go out on a date you always go out to a movie.
Try something different, go to a play, or better yet.
Go out to a comedy club.
Everyone loves to laugh.
Afterward, when you and your mate are feeling light and a little light headed, you won't be in a mood to bicker.
Get off your butt.
Don't just go out to dinner and sit around, do something.
Go dancing, ride a bike around the park, go ice skating.
Learn something new together.
Have you ever wanted to learn pottery? Maybe you wanted to learn to cook exotic meals.
How to shoe a horse? Pick something that neither of you has ever done and something that both of you might find a bit interesting and go for it.
Danger.
Maybe not real danger, but simulated danger is always a good way to ignite some passion.
How about sky diving? Flying ultralights? Bungee Jumping? Roller Coaster rides? The adrenaline will be pumping and excitement will be in the air.
With any of these dates, you will bring life back into your relationship.
Just think you and your mate will have something new to talk about, there will be less room in the conversations about the "problems".