HONEST PARENTING

THE PROCESS OF BEING A NEW PARENT.

At the time conception, your gratifying job as a parent finally begins. To be able to assist your child in learning how to properly cope up with life and how to face its vicissitudes, you should allow your parenting skills to kick in and let it guide you on the right path. However not knowing what to do can make it an even more daunting task.

HERE ARE THE PROCESSES THAT YOU SHOULD KNOW TO BECOME SKILLED IN PARENTING.

To find out answers to solving your parenting issues, you can talk to another parent whom has actually gone through that same situation with their children before. And there are parenting forums that are available online nowadays and some are equipped with online chat options. The bible says in nproverbs: "a wise person has many advisors." There are also many websites about parenting and you can find nearly any solution to every type of situation out there. You can try to look at how other parents have solved their issues and what their solution was and try to see if that may actually work for you. Keep in mind, even though there are many ways to efficiently deal with a child, each child is different and you must take the information you get and be creative according to the personality of each child.

PARENTING IS A NEVER-ENDING JOB.

Parents seeing and watching over the years where his/her child's strikes out on their own to become independent and self-aware is incomparable. If one day your child comes running to you and starts asking you like "mom/dad I need help", will you say to them sorry, I am too busy now? I do not believe so, you will not tell your child that you are to busy to help them. And if you do the child will then feel rejected and unloved and as well go seek advice and answers to questions from other sourcves. Many times those sources dont have your childs best interest at heart. For sure, we all want our children to have better and happier lives than ours were. As parents, we are not going to just sit back and do nothing about our childs' misbehavior or about the situation at hand, what kind of lessons are we teaching them if we doing nothing? Having good answers ready and a means to find the right answers for them is what we all need at all times. Children would not survive the newborn baby stage, let alone be full grown adults if parents didn't teach their kids properly. Even after all of your children have grown up, they will still come to you for advice. You are reading this because you truly care about finding the right way to be a good parent to each of your children. Right?
TEACH YOUR KIDS SELF-RELIANCE

To be happy (blissfully) is what most parents want for their child. When your child has responsibilities, (even at a tender age) they too feel proud of their achievements and often feel needed, feel important and of course feel loved. Most of the time, it is out of your own desire for materialistic pressures, or to be liked and sometimes fervently wish that your child may be spared of the things that you did not experience as a child and as an action you would want to do your best to give them nothing but the best of everything. As a result of your child feeling self-sufficient, they will feel confident enough to rise above any situation. As you will learn, giving your child worldly things to keep them busy many times makes them harder to deal with. But giving them quality attention when they seek it along with positive reinforcement instewad of pointing out what is wrong will go alot further.

GET MORE COMPLIANCE FROM YOUR CHILD.

In order to gain more cooperation from your child, try to think preventative - A lot of children develop a pattern of negativity and some specific triggers can set a child off at any moment in time therefore try to look for that trigger resulting in your child's defiance and then attempt to alter that pattern so that your child will be successful and more cooperative. Instead you could put it this way, "Would you do your chore/s before or after school today?", in order to gain cooperation from your child. Always relate your command as a statement, and never as a your child a question - Most parents are prone to saying, "Would you like to start doing your homework now?" and other commands which should always be stated ug a firm voice such as saying, "It's time to work on your homework now", which can help you gain mosinre cooperation from your child. You can also, when faced with lack of cooperation/defiance let them know that one of their priviledges will be temporarily revoked if they dont comply. Not threats but deals.

COMMON CHILD AND PARENT PROBLEMS.

By taking interest, it will definitely encourage your own child to work harder and to maintain good behavior while at school. Showing genuine interesat in what they are learning as well as learning with them makes it more exciting. Many times making something fun helps too. They are soaking up the information even if it doesnt look like it. Most parents often think that they know better and having that mind set is the biggest part of the problem because the parent actually doesn't always know what's better for their child. In lieu of the age that we now live in, a lot of the parents have to keep a strict eye on their children. So if you do not have one of these back at home and you are basically clueless about them do not even contemplate on trying to help your child with their school work.

MAKE MEMORIES WITH QUALITY FAMILY TIME.

First, parents should try to rearrange their schedules in order to have the entire family to sit down for meals even if it's just for one meal out of the week. Then create conversations that focus on the child mtelling about good and happy moments and situations that the feel good about. Praise them and spead the praise evenly while teaching the other kids to bond with eachother by also being complimentary.
THE FOLLOWING TIPS ENSURE THAT YOUR FAMILY TIME WILL BE STRESS FREE AND WILL ENSURE THAT YOU WILL MAKE YOUR FAMILY MEMORIES LAST FOR A LIFETIME:

>> Parents have to first establish some positive uplifting points or topics for dinner table conversations. Avoid criticisms, arguing or squabbling during family dinners. Never let the whole family say negative things about any one child.

>> Parents should turn off the television during dinner time so that you can focus on family conversations. During dinner, there should not be anyone talking on the cell phone or playing electronic game (except for emergencies). Parents have to first establish some positive uplifting points or topics for dinner table conversations. Avoid criticisms, arguing or squabbling during family dinners. Parents should turn off the television during dinner time so that you can focus on family conversations. During dinner, there should not be anyone talking on the cell phone or playing electronic game (except for emergencies).

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